Scattering Cremated Remains: Helpful Tips for a Meaningful Farewell

At Candour, we understand the importance of this act and have compiled some practical tips to make this journey smooth and memorable for families.

Scattering from the Cemetery-Supplied Container

The standard container provided by cemeteries across Australia is rectangular (exact measurements vary but typically measure approximately 21cm x 11cm x 11cm). The container is sealed with a circular plug located on one of the shorter ends.

Tips for Scattering in One Location:

• Careful Corner Cutting: Using a Stanley knife (please be very cautious) or a small hacksaw, gently cut off a corner of the container. This ensures the cremated remains flow smoothly, preventing difficulty due to the container’s internal shape.

Watch the video below for a step-by-step demonstration on how to safely cut the corner of the cemetery-supplied container using a small saw.
This simple method can make it easier to scatter all of the cremated remains in one location.

We hope it offers guidance and reassurance as you prepare for this gentle and personal moment.

Please note: The demonstration uses biodegradable glitter for illustrative purposes — no actual cremated remains are shown.

Tips for Scattering in Multiple Locations:

• Removing the Disc Plug: Insert a flat screwdriver or small crowbar under the circular disc plug and gently pry it open. Exercise caution to prevent slipping and potential injury. After scattering a portion, simply reseal the container with the disc.

This video demonstrates how to open and reseal the cemetery-supplied container when scattering in multiple locations.
This simple method allows you to scatter a portion of the cremated remains in one location, and then securely reseal the container to scatter the rest at a later time or place.

We hope this guide helps you feel more confident in taking this thoughtful and flexible approach.

‍Please note: for demonstration purposes, we’ve used biodegradable glitter — no actual cremated remains are shown.
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Advanced Preparation:

To simplify scattering in multiple locations, you may request your funeral arranger to have the cremated remains divided into smaller containers by the cemetery. Cemeteries offer half-sized or multiple containers, which can be requested in advance (e.g., “please divide into 3 even portions”).

General Tips for a Beautiful Committal:

• Check Local Regulations: Different councils have various rules about scattering cremated remains. Always verify local guidelines.
  
  
• Sporting Fields: Special permissions or procedures may apply for scattering in public recreational areas.
  
  
• Beach Scattering: Aim for an outgoing tide to ensure your loved one’s remains flow gently out to sea.
  
  
• Mind the Wind: Check wind direction and scatter remains downwind to prevent discomfort.
  
  
• Stay Low: Lower yourself closer to the ground or water surface to avoid scattering being blown towards you.
  
  
• Create a Moment: Encourage attendees to share memories, reflections, or tributes, making the experience meaningful and memorable.
  
  
• Annual Remembrance: Consider arranging a gathering or meal at a local venue to commemorate annually, honouring your loved one's legacy.
  
  

Specially Designed Urns for Scattering

Choosing a specially designed urn can make the scattering process more comfortable and visually gentler for families:

Scatter Tubes:
These beautifully designed tubes feature a perforated top, easily pressed in at the moment of scattering. Their length helps you scatter at a slight distance comfortably. Available in various designs reflecting your loved one's personality, they also come in smaller sizes for scattering in multiple locations. A kraft paper version allows personal decoration, adding a personal touch to your farewell.

Vessels for Water Ceremonies:
Ideal for ocean or water scatterings, these urns float gracefully before gently sinking. Made from biodegradable materials, they offer an eco-friendly and peaceful farewell. Popular designs include the biodegradable turtle, shell, and "Journey Earth" urn.

Vessels for Earth Burial:
Created from natural, biodegradable materials, these urns gradually enrich the soil. They symbolise the return of life to earth, making a meaningful and environmentally nurturing choice. Options include repurposed mosaic wood urns, floral bio urns, and the Celeste sage-green urn.

Taking Your Time to Decide

We understand the deeply personal nature of these decisions. At Candour, we’re here to support you, offering guidance and care without pressure. Choose when you feel ready, confident that your selection honours your loved one’s legacy beautifully.

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